Lately, I have been thinking about this quote: "There are no mistakes in life, only lessons. There is no such thing as a negative experience, only opportunities to grow, learn and advance along the road of self-mastery. From struggle comes strength. Even pain can be a wonderful teacher." ~ Robin Sharma
I have spent the last decade or so deliberately designing the life I want to live, focusing on the whole as opposed to the professional because I believe that life is about more than work. It has come with compromises and challenges but has also been fulfilling, although it feels like I have aways to go.
And, being in the middle of a bit of a health crisis, I am being forced to become even more deliberate about how I show up in the world and why I do the things that I do. I realise that I have been coasting along over the last couple of years, doing things without thinking about why I do them. It is an interesting place to be. Nandi Dlepu, in a recent episode of my podcast, Listen To Your Footsteps, talked about finding inspiration in discomfort and I am taking that to heart.
One of the things I have been wanting to do is write more, for myself, even if I eventually put it out into the world, yet I still procrastinate in putting time aside to just write, outside of my Morning Pages journalling. While I have built a career as a writer, the act of writing was more a form of therapy, a way of making sense of the cacophony in my mind, a process of being. I feel like I have lost that along the way as I ventured further into writing as a profession, as a tool to pay the bills, keep a roof over my head and the family fed.
I have gotten caught up in a world that says everything must be monetised and lost sight of the power and benefit of doing things for the sake of doing them. At the same time, I have forgotten the lessons I learned from Oliver Burkeman’s book Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management For Mortals which I reviewed on 702 last year.
I have no answers, yet, just thinking ‘out loud.’
This is great! Thanks for sharing Kojo. Life is so unpredictable, interesting and has phases. The trick is to navigate each phase as best you can without forgetting to enjoy the thrills along the way.
I appreciate you sharing your insights as you journey through life. This resonates for me.